Over the weekend we did something uber amazing. KE opened its virtual shop doors. We have long awaited the day to share with our views the final product. The first installment of the collection features FIVE CLASSIC pieces. Here at Kurvy Etiquette it was important that our Kurvy women have the perfect little black cocktail dress to compliment her busy social calendar. There is even something for our International travel diva's. Within the next month KE will roll out 5 more pieces to add to the collection.

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I'm extraordinarily excited to share some great news with you. On November 15th I will be kicking off Global Entrepreneur Week with Passports and Pumps Fall Brunch in Nashville, Tennessee. You definitely don't want to miss the awesome fun-filled day of Travel and Fashion inspiration. Passports and Pumps is the brainchild of Cha Jones The Nomadic Chick. Cha as well as myself are preparing to connect fellow passport pushers in an effort to connect and inspire travelers for the 2016 travel season.

In order to attend this event tickets must be purchased in advance on HERE.  Please RSVP by November 7th.

When: November 15, 2015

Where: Cantina Loredo
             592 12th Ave S, Nashville, TN 37203

Time: 11 am to 2 pm

Cost: $25 Students, $35 Adults






 

I LOVE INSTAGRAM! What better way to connect with the international fashion community. This weeks slayage has my eyes glued to my IG feed. KE finds pride in highlighting style influencers from all corners of the globe. From Germany to North Carolina, these ladies are BOLD & BEAUTIFUL Here's a brief recap of my IG style family (in my head).










All photos are the sole property  of the individual highlighted in the article.

 Remember that one scene from that one movie when Jill Scott was asked to get off the plane due to her extra cushion. Her in-flight neighbor was not having it. Here's the big question. Was the neighbor wrong for requesting that she move? Did the flight attendant handle the situation in the best manner? Unfortunately, I've seen this scenario play out and it's never a good look for anyone. The passenger making the complaint looks insensitive and quite douchy. The 'assailant' with more than "normal" body mass appears to not be aware of their own girth and often feels immediate shame and embarrassment. It's a lose lose for both parties.

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THE SITUATION

In a Facebook group that I frequent, this situation was posted:


What would you have done?


First I must applaud this young lady for handling the situation with a such decorum. Such grace and resourcefulness is not always used in situations such as this. I know several people who would have caused just as big a scene as the young ladies under question in this post. Personally even as a fluffy woman I've dealt with disgruntled fat flyers too. Once or twice I've offered my assistance to other fluffy flyers. I was always met with the same "I don't need a seat belt extension" or "I'm fine in the middle". Let's be clear, no one likes the middle. They weren't fooling me but I left well enough alone and went on to enjoy my comfy flight. While traveling, which I do quite frequently, I'm pretty comfortable for the most part and I make sure to not infringe on anyone else's personal space. On one of my several international flights, I was in an uncomfortable  2nd seat of a 4 row seat. From that experience I learned how to better accommodate myself as a larger woman. I  have never had those issues again. Below are my rules of thumb while traveling.

 

 7 Unapologetic Rules For Traveling While Fat

 

 

1. Ask for a seat belt extension as you are boarding the plane. It's understandable that some may find it a bit uncomfortable to ask for an extension. In order to alleviate the problem request it as you are moving to your seat. If you are not bold enough to ask for an extender, write down your request. When boarding a plane there are always one or two flight attendants greeting passengers as they board. Simply write down your seat number (If you aren't flying Southwest Airlines) and your request for an extender belt. Pass this note along as you are boarding. Trust me, moments later your extender will arrive with no fuss or glaring eyes.

 

2. Wide hips need more room. Male or female I've witnessed and experienced this struggle. If you're stuck in a middle seat I truly feel your pain. Simply ask your flight-mate if they'd b gracious enough to switch from the isle seat. You never know until you ask. This is for you as well as them. They will be much more comfortable if you switched. If they say no, that's fine. Don't get dramatic it's their prerogative. Why the isle seat? The isle seat is ideal for large body frames, both width and height. For us 'hippy' individuals this is your ideal seat. Your left side is free and unencumbered by another person, which gives you a few more inches to work with. Unless you have a much larger frame there shouldn't be any worry about FA's not being able to push the cart up and down the isle. Should you need a little more room without purchasing an additional seat, then the back row and of course the exit rows are your alternative seating destinations.

 

3. Other than flying first class the exit rows are a big guy or gals flight Mecca. Yes, in case of an unexpected landing you'll have to assist other passengers off the plane. Leg room for assistance? Sounds like an even trade to me. If you can book early and secure an exit row seat, enjoy. However, still be mindful of those next to you. This is a row where the window seat is OK, even if you have more hips and dips.

4. Check your attitude at the gate. Honestly no one cares that you have insecurities about flying. No one wants to hold your hand either. Everyone on that plane has a destination and their own agenda, problems and concerns swirling through their heads. How you feel about flying is definitely not one of them. If you step on the plane with a defensive attitude you just might get one back. Everyone wont be as civil or discrete as the young lady from the scenario above. Board. Find your seat. Get a drink. Relax. Enjoy your flight. I'll say it again. Check your attitude at the gate.

5. Buying an extra seat may be worth it in the end. On an airplane, train or bus everyone has to share the same space. We're all cramped together. Why make t worse by trying to fit your large frame in a seat exponentially too small for you? Yes it cost more but us 'fluffies' have all been exposed to the fat tax. No, they're not going to make airplanes with larger seats in coach. Let's just dead that argument now. If anything they're figuring out ways to fit more people in the same space. So for the sake of sparing you from going through a similar situation like Jill Scott, get the extra seat or upgrade. This option is not for everyone but if you know you NEED more space this is you best bet, even in business or first class.

6. You can always upgrade to business class or purchase a first class ticket. Trust me the extra room is a God send. You could still end up with a flight-mate and the same rules apply (see #1-2) in business or fist class. Yes, it's a bit more expensive but you'll be flying in comfort. More legroom, wider seats and sometimes complementary drinks, it's worth it. Who wouldn't want to upgrade? Often, if you get to the gate early enough and ask very nicely about upgrades (you might get one for free), you'll be surprised that it's sometimes only a difference of $12 to $50. This option isn't for everyone, however to those who can, I highly suggest this.

7. Unless you're Richard Branson or any other billionaire, I'm pretty sure this isn't your plane. Having a flight-mate is inevitable. More than likely they won't be plus size, fat, fluffy, chunky or whatever word you like to use to refer to your large frame (We'll discuss why in another post). And guess what. They don't care that you're fat. Everyone just wants to arrive at their destination just like you. Put the arm rest down. No matter how much hip you have it must go down. It serves as a personal space divider and of course an ARM  REST. In addition, I know you may have larger arms but find a way to share the arm rest. No need for "Elbow Wars 2015". If you find yourself encumbering on their space, don't hesitate to ask. A simple "Do you have enough room?" can go a long way. They'll be surprised that you even thought to ask.

 

Should airlines begin to better accommodate larger sizes? Of course, but until then I live by these rules. These are merely suggestions, that are solely my opinion and ones that I use for my own frequent travels. The suggestions can be applied when traveling by bus, plane or train. They ensure that I have a comfortable and drama free trip. I'm more concerned about my own comfort but if this helps my neighbor as well, then we both win. Yes, some will be dissatisfied no matter what but these steps serve as a guide for those plus size guys and gals who are unaware of the alternatives that can be used to better enjoy their travels and avoid potentially embarrassing or disastrous situations.

 The photos in this post are not owned by KEBB or Because I Travel International/Domestic.

 

Re-blogged from www.empirelifemag.com

As some of you may know I am a contributing writer with Empire Life Magazine. One of my first articles written was 10 Plus Size Drool Worthy Accounts. Well I simply could not let the year end without bringing that yumminess over to Kurvy Etiquette. I've taken the liberty to add some additional style inspiration from around the world. These trending style mavens are slaying from California to Sweden.

Be sure to check out the original article which includes more awesome PLUS SIZE ladies at Empirelifemag.com.

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Well hello there Kurvy Kuties! This past weekend was just as relaxing as the previous week. To my surprise I was reunited with a very good friend from my 'Skegee' (TU!) days. Sometimes life moves on but you never forget those you once had a real connection with. It was such a breath of fresh air to hang with one of my dear ole gal pals and her beautiful 9 year old daughter. At times watching my friends children grow reminds me of... Sheesh! I'm getting old! I remember attending her baby shower. Where does the time go? Le sigh. Though Atlanta's weather was a bit fickle this weekend (come on ATL!), we still managed to make the best of it. Along with another beautiful gal pal (Yes, all my friends are gorgeous) we took a stroll through Centennial Olympic Park, nibbled and conversed at Hudson Grill on Marietta Street then proceeded to stay up all night giggling like little school girls. In addition I was beyond appreciative of her and her mini me assisting with taking a few photos of myself. Now, I don't know how we took all those picture without taking one together. I promise I'm not a bad friend.




Thank you Keke and Amerah 😘



Style Notes

This black New York & Co jacket was a thrifted find from my friends at Alexis Suitcase Consignment Shop. They have 3 locations around Georgia and their plus size selection is getting better each month. I always finds something. The top is a Kurvy Etiquette original. If you remember the previous post about Dine en Blanc, I wore the matching skirt. This top and skirt are both available in black. contact me by email for inquiries. My bottoms are Fashion to Figure size 2. I picked up these stretchy trousers while shopping Curvy Con in June. The boots were my favorite purchase. The stacked rugged sole and heel are one of my favorite trends from 2015. I picked them up a week ago (week ago. LOL) from Macy's. This purchase was a sale item and only set me back $29.00. Original price was set at $60.00 and I wore them all day with little fuss.

There's been plenty of talk on my end about What's Next for Kurvy Etiquette. I've been blogging about starting a clothing line for thee past 10+ year with one of my very best friends Katie-Marie Lewis-Fox. I must admit that for some time that's all it was. Simply something to keep our creative juices flowing. But in the back of my mind I always truly desired to become a designer. In 2014 I decided to get serious and apply to a prestigious school of art and design. I wasn't accepted. We'll talk about why at a later date. Still I insisted on learning the art of design. After several trips to Barnes and Noble I felt my design arsenal was fully loaded and ready for lift off. I decided to teach myself. I studied sketching and drafting techniques as well as took free Coursera classes on line for design and fashion marketing. Not being accepted was not allowed to be my excuse.

A year later and I have a work studio (my sun room but it does the trick). MY designs are actually hanging in my home. I've already had a few request to for custom made pieces. Recently, a friend visited my home and I revealed to her some of my work (No one has seen what I'm working on). Completely apprehensive about showing the world what I'm working on, I tried it on. Her expression spoke volumes. Not only did she like it but she was ready to put her order in.

Last night Diner en Blanc came to Atlanta. Not only did I attend but I was also one of the many fantastic volunteers involved in the event. It was there that I decided to wear a piece from my Fall 2015 collection. It received great reviews from men and women. The collection is classic with a few simple trendy pieces. Of course Diner en Blanc is an all white event so of course I adapted the design to fit the evening. What isn't shown is the pearl draped detailing in the back over a deep revealing v cut.

Not only did I get to wear one of my own designs but I of course enjoyed myself with my now world famous travel group Nomadness Travel Tribe, which is led by none other than  +Evita Robinson. I love the tribe and the additional support I receive from them.



So today I'm grateful for God's guidance. I ever so thankful for those who have encouraged me near and far. I'm even more grateful for those who were and still are skeptical. Everyone starts somewhere and I am glad I decided to start in 2012 and began walking into my destiny last year.   

Breian 'Kurvy Brei' Brockington

For the past two years I've spent my time blogging about beauty, fashion and self love. I've spent several afternoons dreaming about becoming a designer. This isn't anything new. I've had this same dream since college. At the time it was just something that kept my best friend Katie and I creatively sound. While in college and much of my adult life I've been the go to kitchen stylist. Even when I wasn't prompted I still chimed in with my own styling tips. Today I am overjoyed, overwhelmed, over worked but elated to announce that sample pieces for my first collection are in the works. 3 pieces of petit collection noir have been completed. My emotions are somewhat all over the place and I'm not quite sure how to feel about it all. It is pretty amazing watching a dream unfold before your eyes. A bit scary at times. But it's nothing I can't handle.

Let me introduce myself. My name is Breian S. Brockington born and raised in the south. I have always been the creative type. Journals and sketch pads from my childhood often remind me that my destiny has always been inside of me. What an honor it is to see and feel Gods light and hand upon my life. So today, it is a living dream to live out the process of being a fashion designer. Countless hours have been spent walking the platforms of Atlanta's Lenox mall, envisioning my collection hanging in Nordstrom or Macy's. Caressing swatch after swatch until the perfect cut of fabric 'spoke' to me. This moment right now has been a long road. The most grueling part has been learning to get out of my own way. So many doors have opened since I made to decision to step out of the proverbial box and go for IT.

Early work from 2015

Petit Collection Noir is a trendy adaptation of the little black dress. Today's plus size beauty is in command of her Kurves. No longer does she hide behind the color black. Now, the color black is an addition to each sultry curve she wishes to display. This collection comprises of only six pieces that are key to any woman's wardrobe. Think of it as a modern capsule collection for on trend millennial women. In 2015 shapely women have embraced their sex appeal but also understand that sexy can be delivered in various forms. PCN features very shapely lines as well as flare and clean straight lines. Transitioning from office to place will be easy and effortless.

I am beyond ecstatic to present Petit Collection Noir to the world.

 

Style
Yes, I am a fashion blogger but that doesn't stop me from checking out other creative like myself. It is true that I gather inspiration from everything around me but it's great to be influenced by those you consider great. From makeup to lapel flower pins, I these creative keep me on my toes and in the know with today's trends.






Mental & Spiritual
Like many of us staying above water and remaining sane can be extremely trying. With my hectic schedule, I often lose myself in work and my mental, physical and spiritual life tend to suffer. Work and life burnout is real and I can assure you that no one is happy when this occurs. When in need of a mental and spiritual rejuvenation, I turn to my spiritual building blocks: God, reaffirming music and peaceful silence. Sometimes, disconnecting from the world is necessary. It also helps to have positive individuals in your life that can pass along motivational guidance.

Breian S. Brockington is a pint sized plus size blogger and world traveler. She dreams of life on the Mediterranean with the light of the sun on her back.

Blog: Kurvy Etiquette
Faccebook: Kurvy Brei